Nicholas The Nature Photographer

Nicholas, Tobin and I took a walk to our neighborhood park last weekend to give William some uninterrupted study time. Nicholas has been noticing a lot about nature lately, pointing out interesting plants, talking about cool trees, noticing pretty flowers. I had my camera with me and was snapping pictures of the boys playing and Nicholas wanted to take pictures too. But he wanted to take pictures of the trees they were climbing and the grass they were stomping on. Then he got bored…because he needed more.

He handed me my phone and said, “I’ll take more pictures on the way home when we go by all the plants. I want to take pictures of life.”

Pictures of life, you guys.

So, on the way home? He took pictures of life. He reminded me of my friends getting on the floor or the ground for the perfect shot. The boy was steadying the phone, was crawling in close, was really getting in to it. And the pictures were awesome. I’m so proud of my little photographer.

Photographic evidence of Nicholas’ mad photo-taking skills.

Scrapbook Saturday: Pregnant Belly & Meeting Little Brother

Happy National Scrapbook Day! This isn’t really a post about that, but I thought I’d wish you all a good one on our national holiday :)

I’m slowly making progress on Tobin’s first year book. Here are a couple of layouts I’ve finished that I wanted to share because of some details.

The Expanding layout I like for a couple of reasons: (1) The extra spacing between the letters of the title make me laugh. They serve as title and journalling in one. Especially to any woman who has ever been pregnant. I mean, isn’t “expanding” exactly how you felt? and (2) I really like how the numbers of the weeks turned out. I painted a bit of yellow acrylic paint straight on the picture and then used black acrylic paint to stamp the number of weeks I was in the photo. The layout is a lift from the May/June issue of Scrapbooks, Etc. and is by Jen Lessinger.

 

 

The second layout I’m sharing is one of my favorite photos from Tobin’s birth. This is the day that Nicholas came to the hospital and met Tobin. I just loved seeing my boys together, Finally.

It’s a simple layout with a painted chipboard frame with some white rub-on letters. I think that the look of happiness on William’s face was all the journalling I needed on this one!

So what crafts have you done lately? I’d love to see your layouts or projects!

Birthday Recap: 37 Is Awesome

I had a seriously great birthday week this year, y’all. There were so many birthday wishes, so many friends to celebrate with, so much love. I get to read Jenny’s words and I got to commission art from Robin. I had dinner with my best boys, I celebrated two days in a row with my work family (my birthday and my awesome friend, Katy’s, birthday are next to each other). I got surprise birthday wishes in the mail from wonderful friends. I got my first mammogram as a birthday present to myself. I had lunch and cake with my blood family and blew out candles with my cousin. See? A seriously great birthday week.

Photographic evidence of a seriously great birthday week.

 Close-up cupcake awesomeness.  Awesome Cupcake Variety.  Sharing wishes with Katy.  Dinner dates  Even more cute dinner dates.  Getting the girls squishes.  Sharing wishes with Matthew.

Thank you for all the birthday wishes on Facebook, Twitter, calls and texts! You guys rock!

 

Resolutions 2012: Two Organized Closets

I’m checking in on my New Year Resolutions for 2012. I’ve finished another couple of the resolutions on my list! I cleaned out Nicholas’ closet and the hall closet. The catalyst was going through the boys’ clothes to send to a friend in Dallas who is gathering items for the tornado victims. I’m glad that I was able to help in a tiny way. And clean closets as a bonus!

Here is my list of New Year Resolutions:

  1. Nicholas’ closet,
  2. Our closet,
  3. My scrapbooking area,
  4. Kitchen pantry,
  5. Laundry area,
  6. Hall closet,
  7. Storage unit,
  8. Linen closet,
  9. Email (I have more than 700 unopened emails sitting in my inbox),
  10. Finances,
  11. Calendars (editorial and exercise),
  12. Chore chart, and
  13. Photos

How are you doing? Have you made much progress on your goals and resolutions for the year?

Photographic Evidence of Clean Closets

 

 

 

Birthday Party Fun: Dr. Seuss Style!

Just like every post when I talk about my sons’ ages, I want to start it saying, “I can’t believe they are [insert age here] already!” I can’t believe Tobin is two already! I feel better now. Let’s talk about his birthday party! You may remember from last year that Tobin shares a birthday with Dr. Seuss and Texas. With all the Lorax fun happening right now and our general love of Dr. Seuss, we decided to go with the good Dr. for theme inspiration this year.

I did some searching for Dr. Seuss-themed parties and came up with some great examples (which I quickly pinned). As with all the celebrations we have, I try to stick to the theme mostly in solid colors and some accents. I don’t like to have everything too matchy and I don’t like to spend money on all the theme plates, cups, etc. That stuff can get pricey (I’m talking to you  Party City). This year I used Dr. Seuss’ robin’s egg blue and red (with some orange and other primaries thrown in for good measure). I also used red and white stripes when I could.

My favorite place to find cool Dr. Seuss stuff is the Official Dr. Seuss Website. I compared prices on the official site with ones from Oriental Trading and other go-to party sites and they were similar (and in a few cases, lower). I did get a couple of the items from Oriental Trading, but the majority of the theme stuff is from the Dr. Seuss site. The beauty of sticking with so many solid colors (or the stripes in this case) is that you can reuse or buy from local stores.

Enough background, here are some of my favorite details from Tobin’s Second Birthday Party!

Tables, colors & balloons. Except for the light blue table covers and the red and white striped skirts, all the table covers, plastic ware, cups, plates and napkins were red ones from Nicholas’ party last summer. I got too many then, but didn’t have to buy those things this time, so I call it a win! I got four Green Eggs & Ham mylar balloons for dotting around the rooms.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The banner. I really like this year’s banner. The supplies were simple: letters from the Dr. Seuss site (they are meant for school bulletin boards), blue card stock from Hobby Lobby, white circles cut from copy paper, black ink for the edges, double-sided tape for adhering all the layers, red acrylic paint for the plain wooden dowel rods, florist foam for holding the dowel rods in place, cord left over from Tobin’s party last year, and purple Easter grass. I cut out the blue squares, rounded the corners, inked the edges of the white circles, and did all the sticking in about 10 minutes. After I adhered the letters, I traced them with a fine-point black Sharpie for some extra emphasis. I punched holes and threaded with the cord and the banner part was done. The whole project, including painting the dowel rods, took about 30 minutes. I had the pots from last year’s party, so with all the stuff I bought, the banner set up might have cost $5.00.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Cat’s marshmallow hats. I found them on Babble first and really love how they turned out. They were simple to make and were a great addition to the decorations.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The food. Because I am trying to simplify my world and not stress so much about every detail, I decided to order the food. Nothing crazy, sandwiches (PB&J for the kids), a veggie tray, a fruit tray, chips, goldfish (One Fish, Two Fish, etc.), and drinks. The one item I had to make after seeing it on so many other sites was Green Eggs (regular deviled eggs with a few drops of bright green food coloring).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The cake. Originally, the cake was going to be a top hat with red and white stripes, but the South Texas heat and humidity made it impossible. The fantastic Jennifer of Sweet Thangs by Dragon made a super tasty, really cute cake. Next year, we’ll defy gravity and humidity!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Picture time! My awesome colleague, Linda, drew the Lorax for us and I added details with acrylic paint and orange felt. I got the big Cat In The Hat and Thing hair from the Dr. Seuss site. I had planned for the kids to play pin-the-whiskers-on-the-Lorax and to get a picture of all of them together wearing their Thing hair on next to the Cat and the Lorax. That didn’t happen because they stayed in the jump house outside almost the entire time. I’m good with that too. I also love that we’re giving the cat, the Lorax and the leftover Thing hair to T’s daycare for the library section of his classroom.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Goodie bags. The bags themselves are recycled bags with Dr. Seuss characters on the front and a quote from the corresponding story on the back. These are sturdy bags, and I felt like the bags themselves were really the goodies for the kids. There was also a Lorax bag that didn’t make the picture somehow. The set came with three per design and the kids had fun choosing which character they took home.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Goodie bag insides. I did want the bags to have something in them since the younger kids at least would be looking for something inside! I included a blank white bookmark with red and white striped ribbon on top; Dr. Seuss stickers to decorate the bookmarks (or whatever); a couple of Dr. Seuss temporary tattoos; and a cute sucker. I was also excited to be able to add some of the fun Lorax goodies that the wonderful rep at BlissDom shared with me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Goodie bag tags. I used the same red and white striped ribbon for the tags that I used for the bookmark. I also used the same blue card stock for the background paper as I used for the banner. I cut and rounded the corners of the tags like I did for the banner, stamped a white circle with my favorite “Thank You” stamp, adhered and done!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We had such a fun time with Dr. Seuss and our friends again this year. What was your favorite detail?

Tip Junkie handmade projects

 

 

 

 

 

Conversations with Nicholas: Philanthropy Edition

This is how the conversation went down when I got home from work yesterday…

Nicholas: Hi Mommy!

Me: Hi, Babe! How was your day?

N: Good. Mom, do you know about MS?

Me: MS? The illness?

N: Yes. It makes it very hard for people to walk and is very expensive to try to cure.

Me: Oh. Yes, I’ve heard that. Are you raising money for MS at school?

N: Yes…(starts describing the walk, the money raised…all in a very loud voice)

William to Nicholas: Buddy, quiet down a little, I’m trying to watch the news.

Nicholas to William: Daddy. Is what you’re watching more important than MS?

And now we are raising money for MS research.

Scrapbook Saturday: N’s 5th Book Done

I’m so excited! I’ve finally finished N’s 5th book (from June 2009 to June 2010). I’m particularly glad because it brings me up-to-date to start a family Project Life for 2010. Excuse the slices of yard you see next to and above the layouts, but that’s what happens when you don’t get any natural light in your home and you have to put the layouts on your toddler’s high chair on the front stoop. I guess. Here are a few of my favorites of the bunch I finished last week!

 

I love his face in this picture. And you will notice how very short his hair is in many months’ worth of layouts.

 

Pumpkin Carving

 

Spiderman 2 (this was the second year N wanted to be Spiderman, but he wanted to be the “bad” one. I used the collage function from Walgreens to get a lot of pictures on the page).

It’s pretty rare to catch N asleep in a room with light, so I had to snap the picture. I was excited to use several “Z”s from different packages.

Game Boy. This may be one of my favorite pictures of N ever. He was so engrossed in the computer. I was happy to come across the chipboard snowflakes that went so well with the design on the paper!

 

Finally. One of my favorite hospital pictures :)

 

Big Brother.

 

Happy Mimi (W’s mom). I really like to use “girl” colors when I can. I used beads on the center of some of the flowers for a little sparkle.

 

Five.

 

Now I’m ready to work on T’s first book! Gulp.

 

 

 

 

Autumn & Donating Organs

I really love the Fall. It was always one of my favorite times of the year growing up. The temperatures were cooling down, basketball season was gearing up, and you had Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas packed close together. But, every Autumn since Mark died has been really hard. I’ve written about it before, so I won’t rehash it now.

This year, Fall started out differently though. I didn’t have the anxiety going in to October that I’ve had the past six years. I was making a conscious decision to not think too much. To avoid counting down the days. I did pretty good until Columbus Day, and then okay again after that day passed. I had a lot of hope for this year’s Autumn.

And then Abby got sick. Abby is N’s Aunt and one of his favorite people in the entire world. I’m not exaggerating, he loves her so much. But she’s in the hospital and not doing well. Her illness throws me back to Mark in the hospital because of the details that her daughter tells me. Levels and organ functions…things I believed I had forgotten. Turns out I haven’t. I still know what your Creatine levels should be when you’re healthy. So, here’s the deal. Nicholas’ beloved Aunt needs a new liver. She’s waiting and we’re waiting. And we can’t visit her because the kiddos have way too many germs to share. She’s not answering her mobile any more, it’s too emotionally difficult for her to talk. I don’t have much more to say except to tell her we love her and lots of people are praying (or sending good vibes or thoughts or healing), so I leave messages on her phone.

Right now I’m pretty pissed off at Fall again. I know it’s not Autumn’s fault, but crap this season is hard on my family. I’m trying not to dwell. And, as my wise friend, SueBob reminded me yesterday, there is something you can do to help Abby and others like her. Sign up to be an organ donor. I am. If you’re in Texas, go to www.donatelifeTexas.org to sign up to become an organ donor. It will take three minutes and could mean the world to a family in the future.

Chances are your liver won’t save Abby, but you might save someone else one day. I would love to hear that you’ve become an organ donor (or already are). And, of course, I’d love to hear that you’re praying or thinking of Abby.

I Hate Columbus Day

I either love Columbus Day or I hate it. I hate it because it was the last day that Mark was home. The Tuesday after Columbus Day he went into the second hospital and never came back. I was off of work for Columbus Day and together with Mark’s parents we decided that it would be the test day for Mark to see if he could take care of Nicholas by himself. Until then, Mark’s parents stayed at our apartment with Nicholas while I went to the office. They were exhausted and wanted to be home as much as we were exhausted and wanted to be back to normal.

So we spent the weekend together. Mark figured out how to get around the apartment without running into anything or dropping the baby. We moved the furniture around, we got the playpen and crib set up so Mark could manuever. And Mark snuggled with Nicholas. That’s why I love the memory of that weekend, that Columbus Day. Mark got a full day of snuggle time with Nicholas. No pressure on him because I was home too. Except for one moment when he really wanted to go for a drive (and drive himself) where he got out at a store and fell, it was a very good weekend.

He felt confident that he would be able to take care of Nicholas starting on the Tuesday after Columbus Day. He said it would be slow going, but Nicholas wasn’t really rambunctious or anything, so he thought he could handle it. He was excited to be getting back to normal. We were searching for doctors, figuring out his new diet, learning what “normal” was going to be for our little family.

It only lasted that weekend. On Tuesday he would be back in a hospital and would never sleep in our bed again. Just over a week after that happy weekend he would be in a coma. One month after that he would be in hospice taking his last breath. His parents and sister were on one side, my mother, Nicholas and I on the other. His mother held his right hand while Nicholas and I held his left. When it was clear that he was at the end, I turned off the last loud machine associated with his death. The room got quiet, you could only hear breathing. Labored breathing, gasping breaths, N’s faster baby breath, and our breathing…trying to stay calm for Mark. Letting him know it was okay. Nobody really talking except to tell Mark we loved him and were with him. And then he was gone.

It didn’t all really start on Columbus Day, of course; but, I’ve always associated today with Mark’s final fight. It wasn’t until just now, as I was writing this, that I thought that maybe I should be happy when Columbus Day rolls around as it was the last weekend we had together. Just me, Mark and his precious boy.

Conversations with Nicholas ~ Dog Heaven Edition

On the way to school early this week…

Nicholas: Mom?
Me: Yes?
N: Do you think that Brittany [our dog who died about 1.5 years ago] has found Daddy Mark? In Heaven, I mean?
M: Of course. I think that Daddy Mark was waiting for Brittany the second she got to Heaven. What do you think?
N: I think so too. And I think they’re playing fatch.
M: “Fatch”? Do you mean “fetch”?
N: No. Fatch. Fatch is catch and fetch together [editor's note: the "duh" was implied here]

So there you have it. Brittany is in Heaven with Daddy Mark and they are having a blast playing Fatch.